Fighting Back Against Rapists

When confronted by a rapist, should a woman submit or fight? It is one of the most frightening and confusing questions faced by women across the country. While many elements factor into that decision, new developments in criminal profiling offer guidance to the potential victim.

Women's self-defense experts say that if you find yourself in a situation where your only choices are to resist or to submit, you should weigh your chances of escaping, attracting help or incapacitating the assailant.

COLD STATISTICS
underscore the stark reality that haunts many women in America: Rape is a common event here. In fact, somewhere in the country, a woman is raped every six minutes. A 1992 study by the National Center for Victims of Crime found that one in eight females has been the victim of forcible rape or attempted rape sometime during her lifetime. Last year, the Department of Justice recalculated the odds of such sexual assaults as one in five. That means that one in five women will eventually be faced with making a decision about how to
respond when suddenly confronted by a rapist.

If you are that target female, what should you do? Fight like a tiger? Meekly submit? Try to talk the assailant out of it? Those questions and the issues they raise have long been the subject of contentious debate and contradictory advice.

RESIST OR SUBMIT?
Women,s self-defense experts say that if you find yourself in a situation where your only choices are to resist or to submit, you should weigh your chances of escaping, attracting help or incapacitating the assailant.

"Some rapists might hurt you more, or kill you, if you fight back," said Christine Fowley, manager of the rape crisis program at Saint Vincent's Hospital in New York City. "On the other hand, some rapists might back off if you fight. You have to use your best judgment, given the situation."

"The most recent research [on] victim responses [shows that] in certain circumstances and with certain personalities of rapists, there is at least a possibility of avoiding the humiliating experience of being raped," said Cora Mosely, a professor in the department of criminology and criminal justice at the University of Texas at Arlington.

In fact, using methods not unlike those employed by FBI profilers to predict the behavior of serial killers, police and forensic psychologists have identified four profiles of rapists defined by motive, style of attack and psychosexual characteristics. They are:

More importantly, such rapist behaviour profiles provide information that may be helpful in
determining how best to respond to a specific kind of attacker.

"If you,re given a chance to think, you should consider these characteristics," in the split-second you have to assess your chances of survival if you struggle or succumb, said forensic psychologist Robert Geffner, founder and president of the Family Violence and Sexual Assault Institute of San Diego, Calif. Here are the characteristics of each of the four rapist profiles:

SO WHAT IS A WOMAN TO DO?
While authorities generally agree that rapist profiles are useful in planning defense responses, they don't completely agree on what those responses should be. Here's
what some say about the four profiles.

TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS
It is less likely that a woman - even one who has taken a women,s self-defense course - can
overcome the intensity of the violence that an anger rapist will inflict, said Geffner. But power rapists commit nearly two-thirds of all rapes, and Fowler believes you have a fighting chance to fend them off.

"If you assess the situation and feel confident of your ability to fight or talk your way out of [being raped], go ahead and do it," said Fowley. "Most rapists are not murderers."

"There are women who have yelled or fought back, whether they've taken self-defense classes or not, and have not gotten raped," said Brady. "To tell a woman don't do anything, be the passive female, is absolute (nonsense)."
While cautioning that "every case is different and there are always exceptions," Cooper added, "If there,s even a [slight] chance of getting away or living the rest of your life as a rape victim, is it worth it [to resist]? It's a question every woman has to answer for herself. It's as foolish to discourage resistance as it is to prescribe the same course of action for all women."

"Given that the goal of all women who are in imminent danger of being raped is to avoid it, they should rely on their instincts rather than assume that they have to submit," said
Mosely.

But whatever her instincts tell her to do, "If a woman survives, she made the right choice," as Fowley put it.


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